Sometimes it feels good to ramble about nothing at all. Not that I am the type of person who loves to talk on and on, but occasionally and with people whom I am comfortable with, I can just talk non stop about anything and everything. True, not all the people love it when I am rambling. most of the times kalo ramble to memang ramble sendiri sendiri je, the person yang you ramble on tu tak se-excited as you are pun. Ye la, nama pun rambling kan, ofkos la whatever you said don’t make sense at all. I notice we people have some sort of special ability, where you can just tuned the sounds out when you are not interested in whatever people are saying to you. I do that sometimes, so I don’t blame people if they power up their special ability during my rambling time.
So most of the time, bila sampai masa nak mempot pet, I will just pot pet it with my inner self. Cakap sensorang je :P. and some of the times, it feels good just to pour it out, not to anyone in particular, but not to yourself jugak. Hence, the blog. One of the few reason why I blog. Just to rambles. Hehe.
Being a human being, sometimes you do have a lot that you have to think for yourself, then you tend to saw other’s problems, difficulties or dilemmas as a simple issue, not as important as yours. You may call it penting kan diri sendiri, but it is the way it goes. Memang patut pentingkan diri sendiri ni sometimes. Ye la, nak pikir masalah orang len, masalah kita sape nak pikirkan ye dak? Although terkadang kita perlu menjadi seseorang yang boleh mendengar. Not to think or give resolution, just to hear them out. Some people doesn’t need resolution, they just want to know that you listen and you care about them.
Well move to another storyyyyy. As anywhere in the world, in my workplace, there is one girl. No no no, ini bukan kisah one girl met one boy then they fall in lurve. Bukan bukan bukan. One girl, who caused havoc to all other, and whom is hated by all other. HATED, as in capital hated. What she had done (banyak benda dah dia buat) was soooo bad, semua yang buruk buruk tu ye la tu. Pandai main politik, pandai kipas boss. That is the worst thing that someone can do, and surely all people will hate her/him. Ye la, kalau dah pandai kipas boss tu, tau tau sendiri le, bukan jenis yang rajin buat keje ke ape ke. Keje semua hampeh je. Teamwork takde. Tak respect sesame kita officemate ni. All leads to negative thing la.
Ok, back to the story. So all my workmates mengadu pasal dia. All makan hati sebab dia. Boss memang dah taleh buat ape (kitorang nye Team Leader sokong kitorang, memang tak makan butter yg minah ni try to feed him :P), sebab minah ni tatau la, jenis hati kering kot. Dah a fewtimes masuk one to one session ngan TL ni, tapi hampeh. Tapi minah ni jarang kenakan yours truly ni, sebab shift kitorang pun dah lain lain, and it sooo happens I got a bit authority over her. So, disebabkan agak tensen dan kesian mendegar cerita mereka yang mengadu, so I pun buat la something. As said, as I got a lil’ authority over her, jadinye I sent one email to her, and to few others jugak, secara subtle je menegur dia on how she suppose to carry out one designated task. Not a sarcastic email, more like a warning email. Its like ‘this is a heads up email, to remind you that all your doings are under my supervision, so please don’t try to ngelat2, I akan tau, so aware ya before i catch you’ kind of email.
And after I shoot off the email, I feel nice. Macam I dah buat sesuatu, instead of just listening to them complaining at least I take action on it, even if it is a simple one. But I know, me sending the email won’t affect her much, but still at least she knows that us leader didn’t just simply receive the report. We do analyze it and we do notice any ngelat-ing that you do. You can change a person, maybe they are wired that way. But instead of having to let me walk over your head, you can try to ngelat in your own way also. Its not like you do not have hak as she does. Its all falls under how you would see the person, and how to react or waltz around their personality. Kalau dah orang nya jenis bodoh camtu, kita pun tayah nak gaduh gaduh tensen2 sampai boss tau. Boss ofkos la bela dia, dah nama pun ejen kipas boss. Gaduh gaduh tensen pun kita jugak yang susah hati tade mood nak datang keje. So by accepting and understand her way, we can somehow lower our expectation, and gracefully find out way out through any mess that she caused you.
True, saying is easier than actually doing it, tapi dengan komplen je and tensen tensen sensorang, it won’t resolve anything. You have a great job with all the great prospects, don’t let one stupid person affects your whole work life. Most of our time we spend at the office, paling tak pun 9 jam sehari termasuk lunch time, so why don’t you make it worth your while?
Nah sekian lah ceramah Dr Phil versi CikYaya. A reminder to all of us, semoga setiap pekerjaan kita membawa keberkatan J
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